Stress seems to be everywhere in our busy, chaotic lives. In small doses, stress can motivate us to act and accomplish tasks and prevent us from being hurt but our bodies are not designed to handle long term, chronic stress. But what is stress?
According to WHO (World Health Organisation) it’s an “Occupational Phenomenon” or how we react when we feel under pressure or threatened. Often when we’re in a situation that we don’t feel that we can manage or control. It’s not considered a mental health problem but it can cause them.
It’s a physical reaction; part of the Fight/Flight response that causes adrenaline and cortisol to rush through our bodies causing increased heart rate, our muscles to tense, our breathing to quicken and our blood pressure to rise when it perceives danger, evolved from the days when we had to survive predators. Nowadays, our stressors, which are the triggers of stress, are modern day ones like overwork, financial or major life changes and events plus many more.
Obviously, it’s not sustainable to be in a chronic state of stress due to the effects that prolonged cortisol has on the mind and body but unfortunately, there are some situations where this is unavoidable. A carer for example, could find their responsibilities overwhelming and add to that, financial difficulties and insufficient living conditions could lead them to depression, anxiety and chronic stress.
Another large contributor to stress nowadays especially is the work- life balance. We put so much pressure on ourselves to put the hours in, maybe for fear of our job security, that we don’t have time for ourselves or our families. Certain professions like Teaching, nursing, and legal roles especially, work long hours. Burnout is physical and emotional exhaustion and I know two teachers who have burned out and become ill with the stress of the job because they can’t complete all of their tasks in the working day, so have to finish it in their spare time regularly.
Financial stress with the cost of living crisis, is having a huge impact on the quality of people’s lives; there has never been such need for food banks and debt charities as there has before. Poverty and poor housing conditions are related to this and as the problems can’t be solved quickly, more and more people are living with chronic stress.
Major life changes like divorce, childbirth, death or major injury or illness will cause stress and all are some of life’s challenges that we have to face sometimes but are none the less stressful. In all of those situations a person could become very lonely, adding to the stress and making things worse.
Discrimination and bullying, even their mildest forms, are a huge source of stress and distress for the victims who suffer at the hands of perpetrators, as are victims of abuse.
Sexual and domestic abuse rose during the pandemic as it was the perfect setting for offenders to take advantage of the fact that there was nowhere for their victims to turn. Relationship problems have and always will exist and cause stress until they get resolved one way or another and are another of life’s challenges.
Is the purpose of stress is to build our resilience? Is resilience the antidote? Looking after your wellbeing, as best you can will help. I took these ideas from the Mind website to help combat the affects of stress.
Look after your wellbeing
Taking care of your wellbeing can help you feel more able to manage stress. Different things will work for different people, but these are some ideas you could try: Good luck and I wish you well.
- Be kind to yourself. Learning to be kinder to yourself can help with how you feel in different situations. Try to take breaks in your day for things you enjoy. And reward yourself for your achievements, even if they seem small.
- Try to find time to relax. This might feel hard if you can’t do anything to stop a situation that is making you stressed. But if you can allow yourself a short break, this can help with how you feel. See our pages on relaxation for some tips and exercises.
- Develop your interests and hobbies. Spending time on things you enjoy could help distract you from a stressful situation. If stress is making you feel lonely or isolated, shared hobbies can also be a good way to meet new people.
- Spend time in nature. This can help to reduce stress and improve wellbeing. You could try going for a walk in a green space, taking care of indoor plants, or spending time with animals. Our nature and mental health pages have more information.
- Look after your physical health. Getting enough sleep, staying physically active and eating a balanced diet can make stress easier to manage. Stress can sometimes make these things difficult to look after. But even small changes can make a big difference.